Friday, January 15, 2010

He & She....The story pt.1

The characters in this story I've decided to name them "He" & "She" because we might find them in us or people we know. Also I've decided to give "He" my occupation (crisis manager)...you'll see why later on.

"Nothing's worse than facing a truth you never knew existed in you but on the contrary, you thought you had it."

He is (as mentioned above) is a crisis manager, this would kind of give us an idea about his personality...cool, stable, thinks about everything and analysis it so as not to make a wrong decision. Always on time and calculates things buy the minute and gives himself a +/- range incase anything happens. He's in a company, he's successful and (as he knows) is liked by a big percentage of his colleagues. By the way he's 29.

She is the funny crazy teen girl who's in collage, full of youth and wants to live life and go here and there and to be honest she has all the right. She's never on time, she loves to sleep and very stubborn and takes decisions quickly. In the end she's 18...what would you expect? But the most important thing she wants to hear....hear words....words that will make her go wild and fall into him.


Here's how it all began....


Sometime ago a family friend came up to him and told He that they know someone who might be just right for him...Not sure how, but I'm sure that person had some sort of theory in their head...She
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On the other side that same person told She that there's He and he might be just compatible for her. Seems like we have to do some tests on her brain to see to which extent of "Sane" she might reach.

So...They meet in her house in front of the whole family. Very nice family, friendly and they have a cozy house that you feel "at home" once you enter. So of course the usual welcome and friendliness of the culture and all that stuff took place. Then She came in all shy and stuff with her head down, walking in slowly and her hair covering her face.

He on the other hand stood up when she walked in and was waiting to see what was approaching him. He knew it was something good. He felt it in deep down. Her hair was set aside by her looking up at him and she was adorable.

Turning around the perspectives you'd find she saying to herself "He's cute...I hope what I heard about him is true". You could see a shine in her eyes when she saw him, and you could see she wasn't disappointed in the end sometimes you get unpleasant surprises in packages...if you know what I mean.

They sat, they looked, they thought and they wondered. Each having their own set of questions in their heads. They smiled hoping to make a perfect first impression. In the end first impression always lasts.

He sat at the tip of the chair, he wasn't 100% comfy because he was just concentrating on doing one thing and one thing only...perfect first impression. Now I don't agree with him that much because to make a perfect first impression you have to act normal, normal, normal.....He be normal!!!

After sometime He & She went into another room to start talking, exploring, finding, matching and for He analyzing...in the end he's a crisis manager.

End of Part 1...

Friday, January 8, 2010

The letter "R"

My name does start with "R", but I never actually thought about it. I always spelled my name as R A M Y, but when someone me that it starts with the letter "R" and made me a nice little artistic craft out of it....I noticed it and said to myself "hey your name starts with "R".

Funny how you can have something there all of your life and you never noticed it until someone shows it to you.

Thursday, January 7, 2010

My daily nightmare... My daily picture in my head

Nothing's worse than feeling everyday the same feeling, This feeling has been haunting me for the past 3 months and it's getting worse not just by the day but by the hour and the minute.

"Failure" the feeling of failing is worse than anything in the world. For me failing was never an option, but one day about 4 years ago I failed at achieving a goal I had to do. When I failed back then I realized that you've gotta taste failure every now and then to taste success and glory.

I got up from my failure and started again and the results were fantastic.

Today!!! starting 3 months ago I have a daily picture in my mind and it's not a pretty one. The daily nightmare that doesn't want to leave me, even if people tell me otherwise I just can't let it go.

5 years ago I had 14 people under my management. I was able to unite them as 1 family and told them "all our problems we'll solve them together, we don't want to bug the management with our crap". They all agreed and till the day I left that team (2 years ago) we only raised our problems maybe 3 times.

Success? How? Success by managing these people and achieving targets and being on big family. How by having people wanting to work and wanting to give more and most important SUCCEED!!!

Today I have 3 people under my management and the HATE each other and simply don't want to succeed. Success for them is basically failure and vise verse. My objective...make them unite and succeed.

One question, how can you make honey out of mud mixed with tar?